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About Exechorseluver

A writer and horse lover (animal lover) at heart. With a few year's exception, I have mostly worked outside the animal field. I am pretty good at what I do. But at the end of day, I want to be with the horses, cuddle with the dogs and sit quietly as the sun goes down with a cat on my lap. Spending time with my family and especially my grandchildren is number one for me. My little farm gives me a perfect life.

Surprises

Mom's overflowing laundry basket.

Mom’s overflowing laundry basket.

Ever since we brought my mom to live here in Wharton, an on-going problem has been her laundry.  If you have ever met my mother (or any of her sisters when they were around) you know she loves clothes.  She has always been concerned about how she looks, if everything coordinates, if she has her lipstick on and if it is the right outfit for event.

One of the big perks of her new place was that it has two closets.  I can tell you both closets are full to the brim.  I am even a little concerned that the rod in the first closet may snap due to the weight of her clothes.  Now, some of the things like those with more complicated zippers and buttons, she does not wear anymore.  She also favors pink.  She has a great green warm-up suit with matching shirt that would look wonderful on her and I think she has worn it once.  It is not pink.

When she has down time in her room, her favorite activity is to play with her clothes.  Lunch needs a different outfit than breakfast.  When I get there in the afternoon, often she has been resting.  If I am lucky I can get her back in the outfit she wore to lunch.

Lauren and I (we are not proud) have been known to go through her laundry basket and take out things that are not dirty and re-hang them.  I mean really, how dirty can she get inside a facility all day?  Sometimes she has sweaters on for mere moments and in the laundry basket they go.

So, in the beginning I kept asking the lady at the front desk when her laundry would be done.  She always said soon-the next day-soon.  But it never happened.  Once a week, at least, Lauren and I gathered up the laundry, her hangers and took everything home to be washed.  Most weekends that was an additional three loads of wash-seriously!  One little tiny person who did not step outside on most weeks generated three loads of wash.  Unbelievable.  Plus, we would need to re-hang everything and return it all to the nursing home each week.  We would hang whole outfits together on one hanger in hopes that she wouldn’t try on multiple things to get dressed.  It has made me nuts! It isn’t just the work, but the anticipation of the laundry basket filling up.  Each day I would watch the pile grow higher and higher.  I started out taking home on Saturdays, then Fridays, then Thursdays as it was always full.  And you would never know if there was some “surprise” in the sheets or towels.  The whole “surprise” factor pretty much assured that Lauren was not helping with the wash.

Monday while mom was getting ready for dinner, I found a sheet of paper left over the weekend by the cleaning supervisor.  It had a list of the residents and what day their laundry day was.  Mom’s name was on the list of “no laundry services”.  Wow, that clears up why she never got her laundry done.  I went to talk to the manager.  Apparently, when we first enrolled mom in the center, I had wanted her to have baths six days a week.  The standard was for three.  Mom likes to be clean (thank God!) so we went with the bonus six days of bathing.  Somehow, in the complicated point system that determines what you pay each month, the extra bathing meant no laundry.  Oh, my goodness, we need to fix that!

So, yes, I sold my mother’s bathing rights (two days of bathing for weekly laundry service).  She will still have five baths a week and we will pray that is enough.  Lauren did mention when we were discussing this that if the bathing was the issue, I could just start doing her baths each day.  I have to say that I will stick with the laundry given that choice!

This all sounds stupid but this should give me back a few hours a week and I am overjoyed at not picking through her laundry basket each week. I found a great surprise in the notice left in her room and now I will find no more surprises in her laundry.   It is the little things!

Not a bloody good day!

I have three daughters and all three of them had bloody bad days today. And my mother, well, don’t get me started on her.

According to Wikipedia-Bloody is the adjectival form of blood. It is commonly used as an expletive attributive (intensifier) in the United Kingdom and many Commonwealth and ex-Commonwealth countries. 

Well, we may be in a non-Commonwealth country (maybe, technically we are an ex-Commonwealth country-you know the whole split from England thing), but the phrase was appropriate today, figuratively and literally.

Jordyn, at age five, had permanent teeth appear behind her baby front teeth.  They had to be pulled this morning.  Due to a delay in the timing of the anesthetic or maybe just because it hurt, Jordyn cried long after she got home from the dentist.  I have been assured that there was a great of blood involved in this first example of my daughters’ bloody day.

I called Ally to beg for help (although she was standing over Jordyn and dentist at the time) when I received a call from Lauren telling me she was stranded on the side of the highway.  Lauren and Feather had been headed to trainer Dev’s for their first lesson in over 60 days.  But it wasn’t to be.  Lauren had a trailer tire blow out on the highway causing the truck to rock hard to left.  When Lauren finally got the trailer safely off the road, she found Feather’s white face covered in blood. To say she was panicked and overwhelmed when she called me was an understatement.  We have no one to call here to help.  I knew Luke was at work and Blake was at school.

I tried a tire store that suggested she drive it on up there.  Then Lauren called me back to tell me some nice man had pulled over to help her. Mommas out there, if you are raising your sons to help stranded women with horse trailers, I applaud you!  Then I called Dr. Criner to see if she might be in the vicinity to give Feather a look over to decide if we should head home or to the vet clinic.  Luck was on our side when she told me she was about 10 miles away.

Just about the time, Dr. Criner arrived the guy had finished with the tire.  I even had Lauren borrow some cash from DC to give to the young man (full service vet care).  I will pay her back soon!  Dr. Criner wanted to get Feather out of  the trailer to examine her but I reminded her we were dealing with Feather who might never get back in the trailer after this so she settled on examining her through the trailer window.  She determined Feather had cut her ear, it did not need stitches, but had produced a lot of blood.

By this time, Lauren was ready to head home and I think Jo had finally quit crying over her teeth and was settled in to watch a movie.  Amber had been calling me off and on but I am doing training at work and was trying to focus on it, and had not picked up the calls.  Turns out Amber endured a minor surgical procedure that also produced a lot of bleeding.  She had gone in for a consultation and it had been decided to just “do it now”.  This is my nurse practitioner daughter who is usually on the doing not the receiving end of health care.  She didn’t like it a bit.

What a time!  My head is still reeling.  When I got to my mom’s she was distraught over news of Jim’s fourth marriage and just couldn’t believe he could have married two women after her (of course, he hadn’t but that took some explaining and repetition to get her to believe).

I am now going straight to bed.  I have not had a bloody good day but so far I have encountered no actual blood.  It does not seem like a day to take any chances!

p.s.  When I got my used 2002 trailer they said it had new tires on it.  They looked fine and had good tread.  One blew a year ago but both of my son-in-laws were on hand to help.  The tire store said today that the three remaining tires had dry rot and could have blown out at any time.  I replaced all the tires.  I am grateful that except for a little stress and a lot of superficial blood all are fine.  I am grateful that the tires did not blow out on the trips to or from College Station with Bruno.

Bruno-Post Operative Day 31

Apparently, the supplements we are using for Bruno's hooves are working on his coat.  Pretty Boy!

Apparently, the supplements we are using for Bruno’s hooves are working on his coat. Pretty Boy!

I guess it is just a time of milestones.  I published my 200th post the other day.  That was a big milestone for me-and I guess some of you are still reading along so that is great as well.

Bruno went in for surgery to cure an infection in his front hoof one month ago yesterday.  Although my vet, Lynn Criner, DVM., thought the infection went to the coffin bone, none of the vets consulted agreed.  But when Dr. Chad Marsh got into the hoof, the infection did in fact spread into the bone.  That required more cutting and more down time for Bruno.  I said from the beginning that I was good at growing hoof (I have a special mixture of biotin that makes hooves grow and coats shine) so I felt like if we could get the infection out, we could succeed at growing new, strong hoof in its place.

A quick look through my posts of the last month will tell the story of Bruno’s recovery so far.  To summarize:

  • He spent nine days at TAMU.
  • He has been confined to his stall for 31 days except for a few brief moments when he escaped, rolled and ran.
  • He has been quiet and reserved for his long confinement except for the one night his buddy Kid took a walk-about and he almost went nuts trying to find him.
  • Lauren has changed his bandage ten times using miles of gauze and tape.
  • We have cleaned his stall a minimum of four times a day since he came home using pounds and pounds of shavings.0 112912 crack

Above- the crack in the hoof when we first got him-prior to his diagnosis with an infection in the coffin bone.  All anyone could tell me was this crack would not go away. (Nov. 29, 2012)

0 122112 crackShortly after surgery when they were able to get a shoe on him.  Still big gap between the shoe and any hoof.

Northeast Wharton-20130120-00414Okay, this is not pretty but look how much the new hoof has grown down and how the new flesh is filling in.  It was probably an inch or so from his hairline above and now (look for the white hairs of his leg) it has probably grown an inch plus filling in the old crack.  Lots of work left but WOW!  (Jan. 20, 2013)

IMG-20121231-00361About a week after surgery, you can see daylight through the bottom of his foot. (Dec. 31, 2012)

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Sorry for the shaky photo but what is clear is that the hoof is growing and filling in.  No more daylight to be seen.

We go back to A&M on January 28th.  I am pretty sure that Dr. Marsh will be happy with Bruno’s progress. The best news is we are now 31 days closer to Bruno returning to the ring!

Feather’s One Year Anniversary

 Friends of ours, the McMaster’s had an amazing horse, Prince,  from a Texas Irish Sport Horse stallion, Flagmount’s Freedom.  Melissa took that horse and increased his value by tenfold.  Part of it, was that the Flag horses can really jump and have amazing temperaments.  I heard that the McMaster’s had a young Flag mare in Florida that had some issues but was in my price range.  I talked to Lauren to see if she wanted to spend her money to buy this horse sight unseen.  Prince was enough for me to know that we had a good chance to own an incredible horse if we took a chance on her.  No part of the journey from Florida to Texas was easy-broken down trucks and numerous delays.  But once we saw Feather, we knew she needed to grow up some, gain some weight and learn to trust us.  You will remember major issues with this horse and trailer loading. And issues because she was just plain scared.  But it has been a year now.  I was surprised and pleased by a post on Facebook by my daughter, Lauren. It is shown below along with some special pictures commemorating Feather’s first year at Six Meadow Farm. 

Lauren Davis on Facebook–About this time last year I got news that there was a Flag baby for sale. My mom was SO excited because we knew what a great horse Prince was and thought if Feather was half the horse he is we would have gotten a deal. So I talked with Dee and got my savings out of the bank to buy my first ever “warm blood”. Dee then told me that she thought every horse had someone they were meant to be with, and …boy was she right. I could not be more thankful for the opportunity to bring this mare along and could not have found a horse that challenges me daily in the best of ways. Feather has brought back my love for riding because with her there is no pressure and with every mile stone or achievement we grow closer. This year has been a bumpy road but I would do it all over again, looking forward to a wonderful 2013 season with my Flag baby and many thanks to Dee, Melissa, and my mom because without them I would have never met this amazing horse.
Before she left Florida, young and dark grey with lots of dapples.  She had yet to grow into her head which appeared oversized for her body.

Before she left Florida, young and dark grey with lots of dapples. She had yet to grow into her head which appeared oversized for her body.

It was a series of mis-adventures that caused a simple two day haul to last five with broken down trucks and walks down the highway at midnight.  When the van finally arrived at Irish Day Farm, we rejoiced and got the first glimpse of our new horse.

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One of their first rides. Feather was slow and cautious. Not what we had expected. Most young horses are hyper and little nutty.

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Good jumpers learn to “bend” so you can easily adjust them through and around a jump course. It starts with the young horse and Feather was an eager learner.

The first time we jumped her, we were caught off-guard.  These barrels are a little over three foot high and Feather was easily jumping over four foot.  She is a natural and while we are taking it slow, she has not yet given us a clue as to exactly how high she can jump.  But boy, she can jump!

I have enjoyed riding her as well.  She is sensible beyond her years and has carried the our toddler friend, Miss Z, who worships her along with Jordyn for many safe rides.

I have enjoyed riding her as well. She is sensible beyond her years and has carried the our toddler friend, Miss Z, who worships her along with Jordyn for many safe rides.

Her first show, she handled it all like a pro.  She has grown into her head and developed a lovely shoulder.